Keisuke Boundaries

Keisuke, we need to discuss what we can and cannot do for you.

1.  I need to know ahead of time what errands you need.  You have been doing this well recently.
2.  Some errands you can do for yourself.  If there is anything you can do without me, you need to do that because that is part of being an adult.
3.  You have to keep in mind what we can afford - particularly in light of my losing hours at work and our huge debts.  Most of the debt has been incurred for buying things for you and Kiku that we really couldn't afford.  We should not be paying out more than our income each month.  Budgeting is a necessary, adult skill.
4.  You can approach your dad yourself and ask him what he thinks he can afford in terms of monthly help for you while you are in school.
5.  I cannot continue to buy lots of items.  The debt load is a huge source of stress for me.
6.  You have already agreed to sharing your quarterly progress with me.
7.  I don't intend to sign a lease for a year as I truly feel that a roommate situation is better in terms of cost and emotional health.